How To Pick The Right Wedding Gift For A Co-Worker Or Acquaintance ... - No matter the occasion, show your appreciation for your coworker with these gift ideas Perfect for office Secret Santas, birthdays, anniversaries . The denomination of the gift is a lot less certain than the denomination of the bride and groom. When it comes to wedding gifts, there's no right or wrong answer on how much you should spend It's all about your personal budget And cash Money is a completely acceptable present, says etiquette expert Lizzie Post, as long as you handle it right. Your co-worker is another story Published July 3, 2017 BY: ELIZABETH HARPER Contributing Writer wedding gifts Getting an invitation to a wedding is If you can't make it to a wedding, can you also skip sending a gift? We consulted wedding and etiquette experts to answer that query, as well as other questions surrounding this touchy topic. Between the travel expenses, hotel stay, special-occasion attire and, of course, the wedding gift itself, guests often shell out hundreds just to How much money you should give as a wedding gift depends on where you live, how much you have to spend and your relationship to the couple. DEAR MISS MANNERS: A co-worker is getting married again In January he sent out “save the date” cards I told him I had plans for that day, A wedding invitation is not a demand Recipients can decline, and are not obligated to send gifts. If one of your coworkers is getting married and you're not invited to the wedding, should you give her a gift? What if it's someone really 2017 Update: We still stand by this advice on buying a wedding gift for your assistant, even if you’re not invited— links have also been updated below If one of your coworkers is getting married and you’re not invited to the wedding, should you give her a gift? What if it’s someone really important — for Read More about Should You Buy a Wedding Gift for Your Assistant if You’re Not Invited?.